I have been MIA a lot this past year and a half…
And I think it’s time you all learned why.
Some of you might already know but I am very proud to share here that I have entered parenthood for the first time. Officially, I became a mommy to a glorious little boy at the end of January. He’s incredible.
The most common question that I get — still — is something to the effect of: “How is parenthood treating you?”
My favorite answer has been, “Wild and wonderful.”
There were so many moments in the past year and half when I wanted to properly sit down and reflect on my journey thus far. But not surprisingly, there was and is never a perfect time.
Birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries came and went. All great times to perhaps stop by for a quick chat. But true to form, I usually had way too much on my plate. “Oh that would make for a good post,” thought I. “Oh I should really get these thoughts down in writing,” I ambitiously said to myself. “Maybe I should write a post, it’s been a while,” I would worry.
But in the end, nothing was more important than family. And while I would love to be able to never sleep again just so I could start and finish all of the fantastical projects I dream up for myself, I chose my family instead.
No regrets, of course. Just another life lesson. Another moment in which limitations (read: cognitive distortions about myself) and growth shake hands. Another opportunity to realize that shoulds are just my ego attempting to convince me that individual achievement is more important than patience, sacrifice, and meaningful relationships.
I still have so much to learn.
Welcome to all the new folks! I am so honored and touched that you have chosen to sit with us.
I am hopeful that I will be able to crack down on my priorities and carve out some time to post this year. I love Substack. I have made some wonderful friends and I can’t wait to participate in any way I can. I’m still crafting up all kinds of shenanigans — maybe even some live videos? Like a live concert or open mic night??
If you have a moment, let me know how you are doing! I live vicariously through people these days.
Stay charming,
P.S. I’m not kidding. I really do live vicariously through others right now. We are out of the newborn fog but still neck deep in infanthood! Send me your stories and updates — it will be most appreciated!
Congrats on the new baby! I wondered where you had gone too. I figured some life thing had happened. I'm glad it was a good life thing.
Contgrats, mama! That's sooo awesome.